When deciding to get divorced, mediation is an extremely efficient and effective way for people to end their marital relationship.  Divorce mediation allows people to make decisions about the future without initial court intervention.

The focus of mediation is on the solutions that are acceptable to both people during the difficult transition to separate lives.  Mediation gives both people an opportunity to understand the other person’s perspective before parting ways.  It also provides a safe forum to bring closure to the relationship in a way that is respectful to both people.

There are some factors to consider when deciding whether you and your spouse are possible candidates for a successful mediation. 

(1)    Do you both want to reduce costs and avoid litigation in court?

(2)    Do you both want to maintain control and come to a fair and peaceful solution?

(3)    Do you both want to preserve the wealth you have accumulated?

(4)    Do you both want to focus your efforts on cooperation rather than conflict?

There are some factors that should make it apparent that mediation is not the right course of action for you or your spouse.  If your relationship has a history of:

(1)    Addiction

(2)   Physical abuse

(3)   Mental/verbal abuse

(4)   Significant power imbalances in decision making

(5)   Significant financial imbalances

(6)   Control Issues

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Contact the Illinois law firm of Ursula Irwin if you have any Illinois divorce or mediation matters. We can be reached at 630-850-7480 or you can email us.